c. they ate what?
It should come as no surprise that what we typically think of as "Turkey Day" dinner with all the trimmings had more humble beginnings. According to a written account dated December 12, 1621 that describes the so-called first Thanksgiving, Edward Winslow tells us that, "our governor sent four men on fowling," an observation verified 20 years later when William Bradford wrote that "besides waterfowl there was great store of wild turkeys."
That explains, in part, how turkey got on the table, albeit flanked by pheasant and goose. But yams and sweet potatoes, which are classic southern fare, were alien to most people living in 17th century New England. And what we call stuffing today was originally a mash of ground acorns, barley, walnuts and perhaps some stray beans and other legumes. Other "sides" probably included regional delicacies readily available like lobster, clams, mussels and eel, as well as vegetables and herbs transplanted from Europe such as sorrel, watercress, leeks and onions.
d. making memories
As fascinating as the history behind the American Thanksgiving can be, what most of us remember long after the last slice of pumpkin pie is gone is spending time with family and friends. In fact, at the heart of the holiday is the sharing of a common experience framed around a bird browned to perfection, mom's flakey apple pie and the savory stuffing grandma dedicated herself to for decades.
It's with these individual components that the whole comes together, with pieces of the more recent past woven into the family fabric like a quilt that tells a story. So, while our forefathers may have initially gathered to feast on the rewards of the autumn harvest, today we can appreciate the value of celebrating the abundance of each other. Here's a few ideas to help you tell your family's story and to give thanks to past and future generations—no sewing skills required.
pass the book
Send a journal and a pen around the table while coffee and dessert are being served, inviting each person to write an entry about what they're thankful for.
This is a great way to teach children the importance of inner reflection and gratitude. It's also fun (and enlightening) to revisit the journal during subsequent family get-togethers, especially as younger members of the clan grow older and mature.
uncover your roots
Get the entire family involved in researching and plotting your family tree. If possible, gather and copy old photos, letters and other mementos to display in individual scrapbooks so that each branch of the family has their own book of genealogy.
go 'out' for dinner
Create nature prints on table linens with fabric paint and a printing block purchased from an art and craft supply store, or use the real thing to stamp your designs, such as leaves of various sizes and shapes, or apples and pears cut in half to expose the seeds.